Saturday, November 14, 2009

The Process of Deliberate Attraction

Below are some simple steps that will help you clarify what your real "wants" are. Further, it will help you in dealing with any doubts you have and help you overcome the Inner Critic.

1. Know what you want.
2. Visualize your wish
3. Be Alert

Know what you Want.
Be aware of what you want. Practice this. Take any topic like, discovering the ideal partner, creation of wealth, being a great author, buying your ideal house etc. This is my personal belief that the law of attraction will always work best when you want something that is helpful to others.

Visualise your wish as fulfilled.
Know what you want. To do this, you can list all things you wish. At times, you will know what you don’t want. Use this to know what you want. For example, if you know that you don’t want your house to be an hour away from office, you can use it to state that you want your house to be 10 minutes away from office. Make it sure that all you wish is stated in a positive manner. The next step is to visualize your wish as fulfilled. Just imagine what you would do or what the circumstance would be when your wish is fulfilled. If possible, imagine every tiny detail of such a situation.

Be Alert
Many a times, our Inner Critic makes us doubt our capability. When this happens, cut it at the root. Change your attitude. Do anything or activity that will break all your inhibitions. Go for a walk, a drive or divert yourself into activity in which you will get involved. This will make you ignore the Inner Critic. Another method is to just tell the voice to be silent.

To quell all self doubts appreciate all that you can find around you. Notice anything and everything, big or small and appreciate it. I have cultivated a habit of appreciating everything that happened the previous day before I begin my day. This make me love it more when I recollect all the wonderful things that happened the past day.

Be alert to opportunities that the universe provides us. Initially, when I came to know of Deliberate Attraction, I was under the impression that only thing I am expected to do is to think positive and I will be delivered what I wish in its exact form. But I was wrong. Nature will provide you all the ingredients and opportunities to grab and make the most. You have to be alert to recognize such an opportunity and use it for your benefit.

Each and every step in this process is crucial for the success of your attraction. I wish you all luck and success in your endeavor to attract what you want to make your life a lot better.

Tuesday, November 10, 2009

How to Realize Your Dreams

What do you dream about?

Do you feel that you are limited or tired? If yes, then it is time for you to begin realizing your dreams and desires. Believe in miracles. Hence ask yourself what you really wish for. Go for the biggest thing you have ever wanted. Feel that you have lot of opportunities because you have belief that you can achieve them. This way you encourage yourself to move in the direction of your goals. Carry this feeling of manifesting your dreams in your daily life.

Go beyond yourself.

If you always think low, you are bound to realize the same. If you aim for the top and think about it, you will attract the same. You will get what you ask for. Believe me this is very true. It is similar to shopping for clothes. You go to a store, choose what you want and take it home. Similar way is with your vision. Visualize what you want, think about it and you will get it for sure. You have the freedom to choose and make you life better.

What you need to do is stretch your impression about yourself. The way others see you will be far different from what you see yourself as. When your higher self takes control you don’t think limitedly. Aim for the highest and ask for help. When you do this you challenge the universe if this is the highest for you. this can be done for any goals and wishes that you want to fulfill.

Things that you ask are very minute for the universe.

Hence expand your perception. You just have to ask for it and everything will come to you. it might be difficult process to visualize but it is must for you to expand if you want to better your life. There will be areas where you need to grow, hence foucs on them and you will get a lot of assistance as to what to do about it. Make a note of each of your goals and explore the full possibility of realizing them.

Go for the largest and biggest. It will definitely come to you. when you stick to limits you will remain limited. Hence practice expanding your results. If you have noted down your dreams there is atleaslt those you can start working upon.

Look for things that are not allowing you to realize your dreams. It is because you don’t allow it to happen. Allow the universe to open up to you. open up to receive the love and care the universe bestows upon you. don’t shy away from anything. Receive everything that universe provides to you.

The more you laugh, the lighter you dance. You will see this in various ways it happens in life. You will laugh when you really notice how the puzzle gets solved by these small ways. Laughter, makes one relaxed.

Friday, November 6, 2009

Three Causes for Why Do You End Up Attracting Things you Don’t Wish

How many times have you faced a situation which you hoped you would never have to? I understand how frustrating it is to land up in such a situation. I believe there are causes for those things happening to us. Ever wondered what they could be? I give you 3 possible causes of why you attract what you don’t want.

1. Skewed Beliefs.
What you believe in or have faith in has a lot to do with what you attract. Don’t mistake beliefs and wants. They are completely different. It is possible that you crave for things, but in your heart and mind you know you are not qualified to have it. The beliefs that you have shapes your attitude.

2. Incorrect Attitude
Your beliefs lead you to behave and act in a particular fashion. Each action or task you have performed in your life has borne a result. There is an outcome always even if you don’t act. It is these actions and your attitude that has a big hand in attracting what you want. If they are appropriate to attract what you want, you will definitely have it, else you will never have it.

3. Accepting Defeat.
Perseverance is the key if you want to attract something. You can never attract what you want if you accept defeat before you get it. Achieving or getting something is certainly not easy, but accepting defeat is not the solution. You have to pursue it until you achieve your goal. There are a lot of sources from whom you could seek help. It could be a person who can be your coach or teacher or an accountability partner. On the other hand, it could be an arrangement of objects which will keep up your inspiration to continue working towards your goal.

Thursday, November 5, 2009

The Number One Reason Why You Still Haven't Got What You Want

Ever wonder why you have not achieved your ultimate goal yet or why have you not lived the life you always dream of? Well here is the number one reason why? You have not changed your approach towards achieving it. I know what you are thinking right now, this is basic stuff, right? Let me add another basic stuff and common knowledge here for you - all of us know that if we do the same thing day in day out, month in month out and year in year out, we can rest assure that we will get the same result.

Even though this is basic stuff, how come there are people who still stuck at the lowest level in their lives even though they know about this "revealing" truth? Well, actually my friend we are not dealing with information or knowledge here, rather we are dealing with habit. So no matter what you do to achieve your goals in life, you will (by God's will) stuck at your phetatic status quo level if you don't change your habit for the better. In another words you are not going to get what you want if you do not change your approach towards achieving it.

Let me give you one simple example here.

Let say that you want to become the superstar of internet marketing, and one of the pre-requisites ('habits') to become the internet marketing superstar is to surf the internet looking for relevant information on internet marketing, read them and write down the lessons learned from these readings for at least 60 minutes everyday for 5 years in a row. Now, let say that your current habit with the internet is chatting about "sweet nothing" on Facebook every morning with your friends. Do you think that you will become the superstar of internet marketing if you do not do the above pre-requisite? Of course not, we all know this, but how come you still have not change it yet? Hmmm...wonder why?

OK here's why, in psychology we called this "illness" psycho sclerosis which means hardening of the attitude. But sometimes it can also caused by failure to delay gratification.

Now, what can we do about this? One word, DISCIPLINE. According to Merriam-Webster dictionary discipline is defined as control gained by enforcing obedience or order and an orderly or prescribed conduct or pattern of behavior.

So if you still want to become the superstar of internet marketing you MUST DISCIPLINE yourself to surf the internet looking for relevant information on internet marketing, read them and write down the lessons learned from these readings for at least 60 minutes everyday for 5 years in a row. Rain or shine YOU MUST DO IT.

So there you have it, the number one reason why you still haven't get what you want in life - it's not about what we know, it is about what we do with what we know.

Wednesday, November 4, 2009

Raise Your Vibration and Attract the Life That You Desire

Raising your vibration is simply one of the fastest ways to see the Law of Attraction in action in your life. If you start to feel good the universe will immediately begin aligning itself to bring you your desires and as long as you maintain that feeling it is possible that everything you want will show up in your life with lightening speed.

Unfortunately many people still do not understand the importance of this very simple practice and they go from seminar to seminar, book to book and guru to guru because they think, just as I did at one time, that there is something that they do not know, so they find themselves continually searching for the Missing Ingredient, the one elusive piece of information that will take them to where they want to be.

Being positive and keeping your vibration levels high enables you to attract your desires quickly and efficiently, if you are deliberately trying to attract something and your vibration is low you will most likely get poor results, often you will get exactly the opposite to what you wanted. So it is important to keep your spirit up lifted, keep your mood light and happy and be sure to keep your thoughts positive.

How do you go about raising your level of vibration?

Watch the company you keep - there are many negative people in world and if you spend your time associating with them you will be sucked down into a pool of negative talk that will assure you of attracting negative situations. It is much easier for a negative person to pull you down than it is for you to pull them up.

Surround yourself with joy - spend your time doing the things you enjoy with the people you enjoy. We all at times must do things that we do not particularly enjoy doing but not many people go out of their way to plan events that they do enjoy. Do not make the negative your primary focus. Make an effort to bring joy into your day. It does not have to be a huge activity it could be as simple as going for a stroll, as long as it is something you enjoy.

Limit media intake - we all know how negative the media can be. Newspapers, TV and the Internet alike can easily fill your mind with images of doom and gloom. Make a conscious effort to limit the amount of news that you watch. Take that half an hour that you would normally spend watching the evening news and read and uplifting book, play with your kids or chat with your spouse. It is entirely up to you how much negative information you consume, you have the power to limit it and spend your time feeding your mind with information that will lift your spirit and help you to grow.

Seek out positive influences and people - take a look at the things and people that influence you. Are they mostly positive? If they are then great, but if not make a decision to surround yourself with information, people and events that will help you to improve your life.

Tuesday, November 3, 2009

Become Before You Achieve: The Rule of Attraction

It is very common for people to say that they will undertake activities or perform tasks if some specific condition is fulfilled. On the contrary, the fact is that if you want achieve something you have to initiate yourself on to that path. A common characteristic of all successful people is how they initiated themselves into reading, teaching, motivating and inspiring

A common misconception is that successful people do all these things is because they are so. But the fact is they have been doing these things since a long time. They have disciplined themselves into doing these activities. The reason they are successful today, is that they were carrying out those activities since a long time.

To be successful you have to initiate yourself on to that path. You have to do activities that would bring success, rather than believing that you would do them once you are successful. Success is not a thing that will happen overnight. It is a journey you have to proactively start and perform the activities to taste success.

Hence, change the way you think. Don’t think about what you will do once you reach a particular position in your life. Discover what you want to be and start on the journey by doing things which will get you closer to what you aim to be. Once you do this, the law of attraction will do marvels for you. The more successful projects you undertake, the more the success you will taste.

Monday, November 2, 2009

10 Tips for Being Prosperous

The following 10 tips will help you do that:

Tip 1 – Indulge in your passion
When you indulge in things that you are passionate about, you will feel happy and satisfied. When you feel happy, you emit positive vibrations and hence attract things that are of the same frequency as yours. Hence start investing time in things that you really love doing. It could be a hobby now, try to make a living out of it.

Tip 2 - Affirm You Always Have More Than Enough
The more you pay attention to lack of things in your life, the more you will attract it. You can stop this by telling yourself that you have enough of what you need. The more you believe in this, the more you will see the change in the environment surrounding you.

Tip 3 – Act
Though you need not work towards attaining abundance, but doing so wont harm you in any manner. Rather it will be quicken your want for abundance. So don’t just sit around expecting circumstances to change – take control and change them yourself! One small step in the direction you wish may open many opportunities onto you. It could boost your self esteem and give you a sense of control in your life.

Tip 4 – Be thankful and appreciative
If you are appreciative you will always look at the positive aspect of anything. You will feel more abundant and be thankful for the same. Hence never forget to appreciate and be thankful for whatever life has given you. Even small things need to be appreciated. The more you practice this, the more you will attract better things in your life. It will do wonders in your life.

Tip 5 - Love
One of the most powerful and transformational forces is love. It can be a great healer if you are in pain, can bring you abundance and motive you to do things which you have never done earlier. Hence love all those who come into your life. Love your family, friends and even people who are difficult to handle and talk to. Love all your troubles and difficulties. Love will give you the strength to combat any adverse situation.

Tip 6 – Improve your Self-Image
What you believe in will influence a lot on what you experience in your day to day life. If you don’t feel the abundance, you will never be able to attract it. Hence start boosting the image you have about yourself and constantly remind yourself that you deserve all the happiness in this world. Accept every gift with gratitude. The more gratitude you show, the more you will be able to open yourself up to receive whatever the universe has to give you.

Tip 7 – Create Space
If you jam up your life with negative things, there will be no room to store whatever good comes up in your life. Hence, make room for good things to come. Shed the negative inhibitions you have nurtured till now. Shun those painful emotional feelings and forget the issues you have. Purify yourself physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually. This way you will be open up and create a lot of space for good things to be stored in your life.

Tip 8 - Change Your Beliefs
Apart from poor self esteem, you may be nourishing other kind of negative belief which limit you even further from receiving any prosperity. This could be your belief that you have to toil hard to get money or that rich people are haughty and unhelpful or you may feel that a lot of wealth is a burden. Hence examine each of your beliefs and eliminate the one which limit you. This is a process you should never stop doing. Examine your beliefs at every point in life.

Tip 9 - Observe The Abundance You Have Around You
Whatever you focus on grows. This is true even for prosperity. Hence always seek abundance wherever you go. While you shop, notice the abundance of the merchandise around you. Each of such product was someone’s idea, which has now become so abundant. Go to the vegetable market and observe the abundance there. Each vegetable was nothing but a seed planted which grew to its present form. Find out time to observe the abundance you have around you and you will definitely attract more of it.

Tip 10 – Be Positive
If you are positive, the thoughts you have are positive and emotions you will are positive, then for sure you will attract positive conditions into your life. If you want to be prosperous, this is a way that will work for sure. Negative thinking is a tendency to focus on the negative aspects of life. But even that is an opportunity in disguise. The more you condition your mind to look for opportunities, the more positive you will become, thereby attracting more of positive things into your life. Hence start becoming positive right now. This will surely bring a drastic change in things you experience on a daily basis.

Friday, October 30, 2009

Basic of LOA

The law of attraction is the latest buzz these days. There is a lot being said and discussed about the law of attraction which could make things complicated. Any law follows rules. The law of attraction is no exception. Just like aerodynamics, law of attraction also follows some basic rules. It is better to gain knowledge about these rules so as to use them for your advantage. The 3 rules of Law of Attraction are:

1. You attract things similar to you.

Invariably, you will end up attracting things similar to you. If you are unhygienic, so will be your style of living. You will grapple with a lot of health related issues, since you are unhealthy. So to attract what you want, you have to put efforts into becoming like that. If you want to lead a healthy lifestyle you have to become healthy. Hence, if you find that you attract things you don’t want, take a stock of who you really are. To attract what you want you have to transform yourself.

2. What you attract is driven by what you believe in.

Your belief system has a lot of hand in building and shaping your attitude. The fruits of your actions that you perform are very much dependent on what attitude you carry. Success can only come to you if you believe in yourself. Attitude is the key which shapes your actions and ultimately will result in success or failure.

3. The mantra to attract things you want - Change.

Change is the only thing permanent in life. It may sound clichéd but it is a well known fact. If you want to achieve something you have to put in efforts to change. The change that you bring into your life will result in you attracting better things. If can successfully bring about a drastic change in yourself, you will definitely see far better things getting attracted into your life.

Thursday, October 29, 2009

The Time Has Come

I am sure you must be pretty anxious about the hullabaloo about the movie “ The Secret”. It could be that the time has come for you to know more about the Law of Attraction (LOA). Believe me , it can drastically change your life. It is only your destiny that has brought you her. So open up your heart and mind and absorb the message that the Universe has brought for you.

Yes, this is the right time. Today, we live in an age where we are unearthing the true power of human mind. Perhaps, we should also focus on what life has to tell us about where to pay attention.

Probably you are a lot more inquisitive about how to use the Law of Attraction. I have studied the law of mind action for 16 years and I can now say that I am able to put in simple words what it means. Simplifying it into steps will help attract more of what we desire and less of what we don’t.

The first step is to be very clear about what we desire. This is many a time misunderstood to filtering out what we don’t want. This is where people go off the track. Time is spent more on deciding what we don’t want and not on what we desire. There is great power hidden in co-creation, but we do not realize it since we have been conditioned. I say this because I was so for the first 25 years of my life. Focusing on what we desire rather than on what we don’t changes a lot many things. Things become clear and this leads us to an altogether new journey.

Knowing what we want is just the beginning. The next step is to seek and ask for it. Now is the time to implement the adage “Ask and you shall receive”. Many religious founders and teachers like Plato, Buddha and Jesus have preached this. We should claim what we feel we deserve. Asking or claiming is a way to proclaim to the Universe that you have the desire and are ready to receive what we want.

The final part is opening up. The opportunity is knocking at our door. Many people falter at this final stage. We do not grab the opportunity. We give up too soon. You have to be alert and ready to receive what comes at your door. Make most of the opportunity, enjoy it, express gratitude and there will be better things happening in your life.

Law of Attraction – No Exceptions Allowed Here!

The law of attraction is being talked about a lot lately and chances are that you have implemented some of the rules you learnt. But you may not be satisfied with the results. You may even be thinking if the law is true or just a fictitious concept. Is the law of attraction applicable to you?

Believe me, the law of attraction has been active in your life for a very long period of time. Most happenings in your life are because you attracted them. This may sound incredible to you but it is a fact you will have to accept sooner or later. The law of attraction is working for you though you may feel otherwise.

The matter that you should focus on is how to begin attracting what you want. Every one on this earth is subject to the law of attraction. There are no exceptions. The only reason why things have not happened to you is that have not taken the appropriate steps. Like every field has laws which are always applicable the law of attraction also follows rules no matter what.

So think about things that you need to plan and do differently. You are attracting something in your life, so now is the right moment to start attracting what you wish. You may require some time figuring out what needs to be done, but it is only you who will have to implement these changes. So do not waste time wondering if the law of attraction is applicable to you. Instead, examine things that you do for their appropriateness in attracting things that you wish.

Monday, October 26, 2009

The Secret Process to Attracting Anything You Want Using the Law of Attraction

Where Else Can I Apply the Law of Attraction?

Aside from your personal life and your financial life, you can also apply the Law of Attraction to almost every other aspect of your life. Improving your chances of success in business, enriching your personal relationships with other people, bettering your health, personal development and goal setting - you can even use the Law of Attraction to increase your spiritual awareness.

At the end of the day, what's important is for a person to learn how to use the Law of Attraction properly - a major part of which should be to learn how to focus your thoughts on the right things. By sharpening your skills in such a way that your thoughts are concentrated on what you want to get out of life, the universe will reward you accordingly by attracting and making happen whatever it is that you're thinking about. The Process Works In All Areas Of Your Life Yes most people want to create money with the law of attraction but you can literally use it to create whatever you want.

The principles apply to all areas of your life, so it doesn't matter what it is you want to achieve you can use the law of attraction to make it happen. Do You Want To Be Wealthy In ALL Areas Of Your Life? How many people do you know who might have money but are seriously overweight and could drop dead of a heart attack any day now? What about the people who are in great shape and are financially secure but are going through an ugly divorce. Or the people who are fit and healthy, in a great relationship but are flat broke!

Wednesday, October 14, 2009

Solid Proof That the Law of Attraction Works

You don't have to believe in the Law of Attraction for it to work in your life. This is a fact. You don't have to believe that your thoughts or what you concentrate upon will materialize in your life thanks to this ancient law and I am going to offer proof of this in your very own life.

Have you ever thought of an old friend only to have them suddenly show up in your life or a close mutual friend's life? Or perhaps have you had a friend mention them almost "out of the blue" when you have been thinking of them? You probably just wrote this off as being simply weird or tried to figure out what triggered the sudden appearance of this long lost friend or their memory in your mutual friend's mind.

Have you ever been sitting alone in your home thinking of someone or thought you heard the phone ring when suddenly the phone does rings and it's the person you were thinking of on the other end of the line? Perhaps they told you that they were just thinking of you and decided to give you a call and you simply wrote this off as another coincidence.

Have you ever had one of those days when you're just on a roll and everything seems to be falling your way? You wind up leaving your house late but on your drive to work every light is green and you wind up not being late at all. You stop at the store and the perfect parking space is waiting for you. You check the mail and find that income tax refund that you've been waiting months for! Have you ever had one of those spectacular days where you just feel so lucky that you're tempted to play the lottery.

Have you ever found yourself humming a tune as you're driving along in the car. You turn on the radio and almost as if by coincidence once again that same song is playing. You may write these things off as being coincidence or just something funny that happens every once in a while, but there are no coincidences in life. We tend to attract or bring into our lives that which we first perceive or think of in our mind. This is the Law of Attraction in it's most basic for or understanding.

But here's a thought. What if you could do the same thing with matters such as money or love or health? How powerful would that be in your life? Can you imagine the implications that such a skill might have? Yes, practicing and using the Law of Attraction is a skill that can be learned. But how do you learn this skill? Quite plainly, you learn to use the Law of Attraction as you would any other skill that you might wish to master whether it be playing a sport or a musical instrument.

Perhaps now you can see the Law of Attraction in small ways in your own life and if you spend some time thinking about it there is a good chance that you can remember other times when happy coincidences just sort of happened in your life. It is just a matter of fine tuning the subject matter that you focus upon. Instead of a song on the radio or a long lost friend it could be a sales goal that you might feel is just a little bit out of reach. Your experiment should be to set some sort of goal that will be significant for you. Again, something that is just a little out of reach but that is believable for your own mind. Pick a goal that once it is obtained you can say to yourself, "Hey! This stuff works!" and thus prove to yourself that the Law of Attraction is working for you (instead of against you!) Why not start a few experiments this week and prove it to yourself.

Tuesday, October 13, 2009

Belief and Attraction Are Deeply Linked

The beliefs that you have inculcated in your mind till now play a very important role in what you attract into your life. Surprised on hearing this? I am sure you must have come across people who ponder why some things happen to them only. If you analyze a bit you will realize that their beliefs made those things happen. So examine your own beliefs. Who knows, they might be the reason you not achieving things you wish.

To put it more clearly, I will give you an example. Every actions we do is as a result of our attitude. And every action has a result. Thus our attitude makes us act in a particular fashion and hence is responsible for the results too. Let me give you an instance:
Assume that you are at a party where the participants include both humans and Martians. Now we are all conditioned to believe that Martians are thieves, cheaters and not at all trustworthy. Now, suppose after about half an hour at the party you find that you have lost your wrist watch. How would you react?

You will obviously suspect the Martians of stealing your watch. And now you interrogate each and every Martian about your watch. You bad mouth them and end up fighting with them. In the meanwhile, one of your pals finds the watch and after finding you hands it over to you. He tells that you had forgotten it on the kitchen table.

Thus, your belief that Martians are thieves attracted a fight. Beliefs shape up your attitude and govern the pattern of your behavior. So do examine the beliefs that you currently have and find out if there are any that are hindering things that you want from coming to you.

Love and the Law of Attraction

Learning how to use the law of attraction can help you to create the life that you desire. You can learn how to manifest many things, and most of the time, you will find that money and material things get all of the attention. However, you can also use the law of attraction to attract love and relationships into your life as well. And we all like to feel loved, so this is something that you will want to read about.

How can you use the law of attraction to attract or manifest love into your life?

1. Reflect on all of the feelings of what it means to be loved to YOU. We all have different associations when it comes to relationships and affection and you will want to get in touch with what you associate with being loved. After all, you have to know what it is that you want to attract in order to start manifesting it in your life.

2. Take action on your intention. It is no good to know what you want and to not do anything to pursue it or to make it happen. Pursuing relationships can seem like an overwhelming thing at times, but remember that the rewards are more than worth it.

3. Let go of your negative associations with love, attraction, and relationships. We cannot help it. Over time, we all will develop negative associations with certain things in our lives. Money is a very common one, but so are relationships and love as well. You have to eliminate them in order to gain what it is that you want.

Monday, October 12, 2009

Low Of Attraction : The Truth About It

The secret of attraction- which almost certainly has become the most talked about and one of hottest new ideas in the area of self improvement and spirituality. But do you really think this is a new idea, it is just some old wine in a new bottle. But regardless of its timeline, the main query is whether it really works and why?

Does the Law Of Attraction actually exist?

The fundamental idea is you would attract things that you ponder about. So if you want more money in your life, keep continuously thinking about getting rich. The perfect woman will come to you if you persistently visualize her. This is how the idea was put forward. Now if you go back a couple of decades or more, you would find out that this was a part of universal goal-setting technique, where besides the idea itself, there would have to be certain related actions to attain your goals. But what you see in the newer version is that the action part is almost forgotten and nonexistent.

Obviously anybody would like the easy way to do things and to get what they want and would love simple ‘Laws’ that would help. All our great information on the laws of nature and mathematics has given us the ability to reach the moon of all places. Thus it wouldn’t be half bad for us to find foolproof "laws" of self improvement and success, something that would give us everything that we want. But regrettably and truthfully "laws" like these are more of probabilities and anything else.

Do you think the "the probability of attraction?" would make you feel better than ‘the law of attraction. Didn’t think so! "Increase your odds of obtaining what you want by thinking these thoughts” just doesn't have the same impact as "Obtain guaranteed success by the ultimate laws of reality by just thinking these thoughts." But forget about what’s not true and start looking at really works.

Reticular Cortex- The Secret Of Attraction?

Now what is the Reticular Cortex? Well in physical terms it is a small organ in your brain, and in psychological terms it is a "gatekeeper" that controls the arriving stimulus and directs to either your conscious or unconscious mind. You coach with your thinking and what you focus on, on what to bring to your notice. Like for example, you will automatically start noticing flowers all over the place, the ones that you didn’t notice earlier, when you start thinking about them. So you inform your reticular cortex to allow all information about flowers.

If your thoughts are directed towards money, then the reticular cortex and you will become more aware about things linked to money and also occasions for you to make some. Think about meeting your dream woman and you will perhaps become attentive of prospect for this to happen. This is the basis functioning of our brain, and we can make use of these "attraction techniques" to obtain what we want.

Now remember, this is not a fact and it doesn’t have a 100% success rate. Now stop believing that such "secrets" will always work and stop blaming yourself when it doesn’t. Both of these approaches will not get you far. So the best thing to do is to accept the probability of success and keep trying to improve your prospects of success, and you will taste success.

Keep your goals in mind and start working your reticular cortex because this will increase your probabilities of success. But you will also have to put in action behind this thinking to get what you want. Your mind along with your actions in the same direction would lead you to your goal and is the real secret of attraction.

Sunday, October 11, 2009

The Wallet Method to Attract Money Fast

One of the most common uses for the Law of attraction is attracting money. This topic is so popular that there are entire books published on how to attract money. As you read this article you will feel a sense of excitement, because you will learn how to attract money fast.

One of the most easy and effective ways I have learned to attract money is the "wallet method." Basically, this method consists of carrying a $100 bill in your pocket or purse at all times. The point of this is to get used to the feeling that $100 is a small amount of money to you. Many people who want to attract money fast start off with the idea that $100 is a lot of money. This essentially is what keeps them poor. Most of the worlds richest people will most likely feel that $100 is equivalent to "pocket change." This feeling of abundance is what makes them get even richer.

Simply go throughout your day and notice things that you can afford with this $100. Every time we see something that you want and can buy with that $100, say to yourself, "I can afford that" and mentally spent that money. After about a week of doing this you probably would have mentally spent thousands of dollars. This will train your brain to know that you can afford these things, thus heightening your level of attraction to money.

Keep adding to that $100. The more money you carry around with you the, more you will train your brain to be prosperous. I have read of some people carrying $10,000 in cash with them.

Here is a word of caution. If you do not have $100, do not write an IOU to yourself. This solidifies debt into your mentality and will drag you further away from prosperity. What would be better is to just start off with whatever you can. You can even start off with one dollar and increase the amount in your wallet as you start to attract more money.

Friday, October 9, 2009

Start learning the ability to expand your reality

Many people find it very difficult to expand their realities. It is absolutely essential to keep on expanding your view of life. No doubt, this is not easy to do, but is very essential if you want to move ahead in life. One should keep on expanding one’s reality by regularly taking a stock of what they believe in, what they perceive and think about the world, what they want to attract.

What you experienced in the past, the world that is around you now is all a result of what you have gone through till now. The world you saw before you actually experienced it is what results in your world today. This includes the situations you land up in and the experiences you have. If you find it difficult to expand reality about money, then you may have a money problem. If you think love is hard to find, you would still single and lonely till now. Your past is what decides your future.

It is a must to expand your reality. It you want a better future you have to change your current reality. If you don’t change the reality today from what it was yesterday, you wont change anything for sure. But if you expand your reality today you will soon have a better and different tomorrow. This way you can achieve and carve out a future yourself. Hence start learning the ability to expand your reality.

By reality I want to stress the perception you hold about yourself, the world and how it works. You have to change reality of every phase and sphere of your life. The greater you expand the greater and different will be the results you will enjoy. If have limited ability about anything say earning money you will be able to earn only limited amount of money. The same is true about any other area of life. Hence expand your reality to experience better results.

Learn the ability to expand with the help of new tools and techniques. Gain a deep knowledge and understanding about any concept. Move away what you currently believe in – be it money, life, love or success. You have to experience things outside your own area. Many people don’t have the courage to do so and remain in their comfort zone always. But if you want to attain greater heights you have to expand. Hence for your own good you will have to expand your reality.

Tuesday, October 6, 2009

Why Law of Attraction May Not Work For You

Law of Attraction is immensely powerful. It means that whatever we think about will become a reality. The best way to know about is to watch the movie “The Secret”, which tells you a whole lot about this law and tells you how you can create your life experiences.

Yes, what you think about becomes reality. According to one of the characters in the movie, thoughts manifest in the form of things. The movie is a great source to know about and practice realizing one’s dreams and desires. One know how to achieve goals. These could be small goals and even bigger things you want to accomplish.

The movie mostly focuses on things that are material. Not much is spoken about the spiritual things that we can really experience. It is provoked a bigger question: why doesn’t every thought become a thing? If we are in a universe wherein the law of attraction is existent, if not dominant, then every thought should manifest. This manifestation occurs but not immediately and this has been explained well in the movie, The Secret.

Yes, thoughts that are emotionally charged will be realized if you repeat them enough number of times. But there are reasons for these thoughts not manifesting into reality. These are:

1) We are on this planet to learn through life lessons, and as part of our life lessons, not all of the things we desire are in the realm of possibility for us in this life time at a given time. As an example, if you are here to learn patience, and you desire manifestation to occur at a rapid rate, then you are butting up against your own life path;

2) Your subconscious may be in conflict with your conscious desires. Perhaps you have a fear of failure or a fear of success or an issue with deserving more that conflicts directly with you conscious ability to manifest; and

3) There is a superior force that exists in this universe. You may call it God or Universe or Almighty. But this could be against your goals and hence you may not be able to realize them.

On the other hand, it is good that not all thoughts became realities. I have had emotional thoughts in the past which were very negative and had they become reality it would have been a difficult situation for me. But things turned out far better. This is why I say there are superior forces existent on the earth which will have a strong influence on whether you will realize things that you think about.

If you believe that you can realize all your thoughts it is nothing, but being foolish. It is good to think positive, but not good to think only about yourself. You are not the only one in this world who needs stuff in their lives. Law of attraction is often used for realizing materialistic things, whereas it is actually made to take the thought process of a person to a far more higher level than physical and materialistic.

Learn as and when possible. This could be painful but is a necessity. When you don’t get things you desire, you often are provided with other things. These if you examine are much better than what you wanted. These are things like strength, faith in God, help and inner peace. You cannot have a price tag for any of this and cannot buy them in any store.

Hence don’t form an opinion on someone else’s experience. At the same time don’t be too tough on yourself. Don’t be frustrated if you don’t get things you want. There are things better that the universe if readying to provide to you soon. It will take you to a completely new level.

Monday, October 5, 2009

Law of Attraction and Your Beliefs

A very common misconception among people about the law of attraction is about their beliefs. Not many realize how strong and crucial beliefs can be for an individual. By belief I don’t mean believing in the law of attraction. I mean the belief that you have had and which made you what you are today. Beliefs definitely play a vital role in what kind of success you will achieve.

How you act and react is governed by what you believe in. Let me explain. Suppose that you are at a part where people from Venus and Earth are having a great time. You believe (this is the belief that I talked about earlier) that Venerians are thieves and are not at all trustworthy. Later you find that you have lost your watch. How will you react now?

You will obviously suspect the Venerians since you believe them to be thieves. There are equal chances that one among your friends from earth might have stolen it or you have been careless to place it somewhere and forget about it. The point I am trying to clarify here is that your belief will make you act in a particular manner.

So how are our beliefs linked to the law of attraction? If you want to be successful, but you don’t feel you are worthy of it, your actions will clearly give an indication. If you do not act like people who have been successful you will never walk the path of success. What you believe in influence your actions and the things that you attract into your life depend on your actions.

In each of us is a little child with absolute courage....

Run Freely
(A Lesson About Courage)

One afternoon, many years ago, I went to pick up my mother from work. I got there a little early so I parked the car by the curb, across the street from where she worked, and waited for her.

As I looked outside the car window to my right, there was a small park where I saw a little boy, around one and a half to two years old, running freely on the grass as his mother watched from a short distance. The boy had a big smile on his face as if he had just been set free from some sort of prison. The boy would then fall to the grass, get up, and without hesitation or without looking back at his mother, run as fast as he could, again, still with a smile on his face, as if nothing had happened.

At that moment, I thought to myself, “Why aren't most adults this way?” Most adults, when they fall down (figuratively speaking), make a big deal out of it and don't even make a second attempt. They would be so embarrassed that someone saw them fall that they would not try
again. Or, because they fell, they would justify to themselves that they're just not cut out for it. They would end up too afraid to attempt again for fear of failure.

However, with kids (especially at an early age), when they fall down, they don't perceive their falling down as failure, but instead, they treat it as a learning experience (as just another result/outcome). They feel compelled to try and try again until they succeed. (The answer must be...they have not associated “falling down” with the word “failure” yet. Thus, they don't know how to feel the state which accompanies failure. As a result, they are not disempowered in any way. Plus, they probably think to themselves that it's perfectly okay to fall down, that it's not wrong to do so. In other words, they give themselves permission to make mistakes, subconsciously. Thus, they remain empowered.)

While I was touched by the boy's persistence, I was equally touched by the manner in which he ran. With each attempt, he looked so confident...so natural. No signs of fear, nervousness, or of being discouraged—as if he didn't give a care about the world around him. His only aim was to run freely and to do it as effectively as he could. He was just being a child—just being himself—being completely in the moment. He was not looking for approval or was not worrying about whether someone was watching or not. He wasn't concerned about being judged. He didn't seem to be bothered by the fact that maybe someone would see him fall (as there were others in the park aside from him and his mother) and that it would be embarrassing if he did fall. No, all that mattered to him was to accomplish the task or activity at hand to the best of his ability. To run...and to feel the experience of running fully and freely.

I learned a lot from that observation and experience, and have successfully brought that lesson with me in my many pursuits in life. Since then, I've always believed that in each of us is a little child with absolute courage. A child that has the ability to run freely (or express himself fully and freely)—without a care for anything external—without a care for what people would say if he/she experiences a fall.

I believe that that courageous part of us, that courageous child within us all, will always be with us for as long as we live. We only need to allow it to emerge more fully. We only need to once again connect with that child within us—and give that child permission to run freely, just like that boy in the park.

Saturday, October 3, 2009

The Law of Attraction: Discover its Power

The law of attraction is an immensely powerful law which can drive drastic changes in everybody’s life. The law of attraction has been active all through in your life. What you have to do now is become aware of it and learn how to leverage it for you won benefit. The 3 things the law of attraction does for you are:

1. Draws things similar to who you are.

Note that above I said “who” you are and not “what you want”. There is a huge difference between the two. What you want may not mean you will achieve it. To gain it you have to adapt an attitude which will attract it to your life. As you initiate and implement these change you will notice that the law of attraction does work.

2. Gives your life a direction

The law of attraction plays an important role to direct your life. Whatever comes into your life directly or indirectly affects your life. Hence it is very important to have positive things happening in your life. If you are unsatisfied with your current life, chances are that you have been heading in the wrong direction. This direction was a direct result of the things you have done in the past.

3. Transform your life for good.

The most crucial things for you to grasp is that whatever has happened to you in life – good or bad is because you attracted them into your life. So if you want to attract certain things you have to change your ways and personality. And I assure you that, once you bring about these changes your life will get transformed in a way you might not have imagined earlier.

Manifesting your perfect life

When you have finished watching The Secret you will know how to start creating your perfect life.

Settle yourself in a quiet place and write a list of absolutely everything you want to create in your ideal life. Think about your health, your wealth, your relationships …Be specific! What do you REALLY want? Start your list with something like:

I am so happy and grateful now that…
1.
2.
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"With focused attention and clear intention, my power to manifest is unlimited..."

You can write as many manifesting points as you like. Put it up somewhere where you can read it every day (The toilet is not a bad place).

Read your list at least once every day, and when this list has all come true, it is time to write a new list.

Friday, October 2, 2009

Law of Attraction - How to Attract the Love of Your Life!

The Laws of Attraction tell us whatever energy you give off to the universe, you will attract back to you. So the energy you give off about your love life will be likewise attracted back to you. If you have always wondered why relationships never work and that they all the same, that is what you will attract. Your mind is a powerful instrument in your reality and it can lead us to where ever we choose.

So if you want to attract a loving relationship using the universal Law of Attraction, the first thing you must do is work on inner peace. If you don't love or know yourself, how do you expect someone else to? You need to be happy within yourself, love yourself. If you don't have any peace inside you, you will have the trouble in attracting long term meaningful relationships.

When you start to have a positive outlook on yourself, you will send that feeling and focus out into the universe. So when you are on the positive path, your manifestation of love will be amplified.

The second thing in manifesting your soul mate, is that you have to know what you want. You should relax and try thinking about the perfect partner for you and you must be specific and write it down. When you have a clear idea, you can start focusing on it and give it all your good vibes.

So with practise you will see how the Law of Attraction works for your love life. The possibilities are endless in the Law of Attraction. Your thoughts are the limit to what you can achieve in life. So if you have focus and motivation you can succeed.

You need to start monitoring your thoughts throughout the day, take note of the negative things you attract and try remove them from your thought patterns. When you have negative thought, you give the manifestation power thereby attracting what you think about all day. You need to have confidence in yourself and never look back on your goals.

Did You Know That it is Impossible For You to Fail in Your Life?

Did you know that you have never failed? You can't fail...

That's right, I said it; you have NEVER failed. Not even once! You are always successful in your life!

Do you believe me?

... I didn't think so. Well then, I guess I better explain.

My friend, the fact of the matter is, you are the sole creator of your experience. You are responsible for the creative content of your life; and every circumstance, condition and event in it is a creation that you brought into being with perfect precision.

Now, you may not like the result of many of the circumstances, conditions and events of your life, however, they are perfectly successful creations. These creations were brought about with 100% efficiency through the creative interaction between your subconscious mind and the natural laws of the universe. You are always successful in manifesting your vision. It is just that your "vision" might not be what you think it is. You may need to look a little deeper into your subconscious mind to find out what you really think...

When you "cook something up" in your life, you use the "ingredients" of thought, word, emotion and action to make your "stew".

Based on the "ingredients" you put into "the stew", so to speak, these natural laws brought about an exact representation and cooked it to perfection for you!

But the problem is that you don't like the taste!

Well, you're just going to have to use different ingredients if you want to make a better tasting stew!

The ingredients that make up "the stew that is your life" are the self-beliefs that you hold in your subconscious mind. These beliefs are the sum of your thoughts, words, emotions and actions all mixed up together and served to you as your experience.

You see, you never failed. It's not about trying and then failing. You simply had some ingredients in the recipe that messed up your stew. Those particular ingredients will always make that particular version of the stew.

So, if you don't like the taste, it's time to change the recipe! The good news is, you can do this very simply. Will it take some work? Sure, but frankly, I can't think of any more important work for all of us to do!

Monday, September 28, 2009

Law of Attraction - How to Be Successful With the Laws of Attraction

The power of your mind is amazing and cannot be measured. The power of your thoughts has lead you to where you are today. So look at yourself where you are in your life today and you will know the kind of thoughts you been having all this time. If you tell yourself you going to be poor all you life you surly are going to get what you want. The most successful people in history believed in themselves and have achieved amazing things. The law of attraction is not known by many people who use these laws without any notice.

The laws affect us every day and every second. So every thought you think gets sent out to the universe and you will have the understanding of why you are here in your life. Your thoughts can change your reality the key is to stat noticing your own thought patterns and block out any thoughts that will not serve you in your success.

Positive thinking is the main ingredient to success with the universal law of attraction. So ask and you shall receive that's how the laws work. You want to be rich? Well start focusing on the how and start to feel rich within. So many people are living with a poverty consciousness that will leave them in that state. You do not have to live this way and many people are doing it. So before you even try and change your life you have to be serious about it and have the desire to change it.

The first step to your success is to sit down and find out what you really want. You will have to take a seat, really brain storm and decide what you want. You don't have to decide right now, just give yourself a dead line and decide what you want to do with your life, where you want to be in the future in all aspects of your life.

Manifesting Money - How to Create a Mindset That Will Attract More Money

Knowing how to manifest money is not an easy thing to learn at first. You may think that you can attract all the money that you desire when you learn about the law of attraction, but in time, usually you find that not to be the case. Most people will fail to attract the kind of money that they truly would like to have.

One of the most important aspects of knowing how to manifest money is to adopt the mindset that attracts financial abundance. The vast majority of people do NOT have this mindset. It is important that YOU do if you want to be able to manifest wealth in your life.

So, how do you adopt a mindset to manifest wealth and money?

1. Learn to focus your mind on finding opportunity.

Most people tend to be focused on their bills and the finances that they don't have. Instead, you should always be looking for a potential opportunity to make more money. When you make this a regular practice, you will find that it is much easier to manifest wealth than you had imagined.

2. Become a doer and not just a dreamer.

There are a lot of broke people that have dreams of accumulating wealth. What separates them from those that DO have wealth is the amount of action that they take. When an opportunity crosses your path, you have to be ready to go with it. You cannot wait forever to make a decision on whether or not to take the chance.

Anyone can learn how to manifest an abundance of money in their lives. Just look at the examples that there are of people that have literally gone from rags to riches. You have to adopt the mindset that attracts money and creates real wealth.

Law of Attraction Tips - 3 Tips to Manifest Your Desires

Searching for law of attraction tips that actually work is kind of like looking for a needle in a haystack. You can find law of attraction tips all over the place, but most of them will do nothing to produce real results. You know, like more money in your bank account or finding the love of your life.

So, what are some law of attraction tips that actually will work for you?

Here are three tips that should point you in the right direction:

1. Become absolutely clear on what you want to manifest.

Clarity is one of the most important principles when using the law of attraction. Manifesting your desires becomes easier when you know how to gain clarity on what it is that you really want and shift your focus AWAY from the things that you do not want.

2. Forget about the idea of manifesting out of thin air.

You know, the only people that really promote this idea are those that sell products that claim to give the "magical" power to manifest your desires from absolutely nothing at all. Thing is, the law of attraction works with all the other universal laws and one of those is CAUSE and EFFECT. You have to produce a cause to get an effect.

3. Everyday, take one action to move closer to your dreams.

If every single day, you took at least one action towards manifesting your desires, eventually it would have to manifest. So, make it a point to take even the smallest of actions when you can. The law of attraction is all about taking action. Those that tell you otherwise would also probably want you to buy beachfront property...in Switzerland.

The law of attraction is REAL and it does work. However, you have to find the law of attraction tips that produce real results and ignore the ones that just don't work at all.

Sunday, September 27, 2009

The Law of Attraction - How to use it

Whether you realise it or not, right now you are attracting people, jobs, health, wealth and relationships into your life – not all of them good! You get what you think about, whether wanted or unwanted. You are in fact a living magnet. This means that what you are focused on, you bring to yourself. Here's how it works. When you are focused on what you want, you are attracting to yourself what you want. When you are focused on what you do not want, you are attracting to yourself what you do not want. We humans are enormously powerful attractors and we can use this wonderful power or law to attract more of what we want in life – simply by paying attention to where we place our thoughts and desires.

How to use this law to create your future! Have fun with the Law of Attraction, learn to use it daily to attain your desires.

Use The Law of Attraction to reach your goals and dreams

How do you reach your goals and dreams using this powerful law? Just practice these basic steps:

1. Be very clear about exactly what you desire

Focus on it, write it down in great detail, give it all your positive energy, feel good about it as you dream. When you are putting positive energy into your dreams, you are sending positive vibrations to the Universe. The Universe always responds.

John AssarafJohn Assaraf says in The Secret: “Our job as humans is to hold on to the thoughts of what we want. Make it absolute clear in our minds what we want and from that we start to invoke one of the greatest laws of the universe and that’s the Law of Attraction. You become what you think about most, but you also attract what you think about most”.

2. Visualize your goal

Feel those feelings of excitement about it, emotion raises your vibration to the Universe and will attract back what you want

Michael BeckwithMichael Beckwith says in The Secret: “You can begin right now to feel healthy. You can begin to feel prosperous. You can begin to feel the love that’s surrounding you, even if its not there and what will happen is the universe will correspond to the nature of your song. The universe will correspond to the nature of that inner feeling and manifest because that’s the way you feel”.

Bob ProctorBob Proctor says in The Secret: “See yourself living in abundance and you will attract it. It always works. It works every time, with every person”.



3. Allow yourself to receive

This may seem the hardest part, but let the Universe figure out how your goal can be achieved. Act like you already have it. Have faith. Be grateful. All you need to do is expect it.

Joe Vitale says in The Secret: “And the universe will start to rearrange itself to make it happen for you ..….If you turn it over to the universe you will be surprised and dazzled by what is delivered to you. This is where magic and miracles happen”.

That’s all there is to The Law of Attraction. Always expect your desires. Expect miracles. All this takes is a little practice.

This article is based from "The Secret" Movie .