Ever wonder why you have not achieved your ultimate goal yet or why have you not lived the life you always dream of? Well here is the number one reason why? You have not changed your approach towards achieving it. I know what you are thinking right now, this is basic stuff, right? Let me add another basic stuff and common knowledge here for you - all of us know that if we do the same thing day in day out, month in month out and year in year out, we can rest assure that we will get the same result.
Even though this is basic stuff, how come there are people who still stuck at the lowest level in their lives even though they know about this "revealing" truth? Well, actually my friend we are not dealing with information or knowledge here, rather we are dealing with habit. So no matter what you do to achieve your goals in life, you will (by God's will) stuck at your phetatic status quo level if you don't change your habit for the better. In another words you are not going to get what you want if you do not change your approach towards achieving it.
Let me give you one simple example here.
Let say that you want to become the superstar of internet marketing, and one of the pre-requisites ('habits') to become the internet marketing superstar is to surf the internet looking for relevant information on internet marketing, read them and write down the lessons learned from these readings for at least 60 minutes everyday for 5 years in a row. Now, let say that your current habit with the internet is chatting about "sweet nothing" on Facebook every morning with your friends. Do you think that you will become the superstar of internet marketing if you do not do the above pre-requisite? Of course not, we all know this, but how come you still have not change it yet? Hmmm...wonder why?
OK here's why, in psychology we called this "illness" psycho sclerosis which means hardening of the attitude. But sometimes it can also caused by failure to delay gratification.
Now, what can we do about this? One word, DISCIPLINE. According to Merriam-Webster dictionary discipline is defined as control gained by enforcing obedience or order and an orderly or prescribed conduct or pattern of behavior.
So if you still want to become the superstar of internet marketing you MUST DISCIPLINE yourself to surf the internet looking for relevant information on internet marketing, read them and write down the lessons learned from these readings for at least 60 minutes everyday for 5 years in a row. Rain or shine YOU MUST DO IT.
So there you have it, the number one reason why you still haven't get what you want in life - it's not about what we know, it is about what we do with what we know.
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